I think this has become the conssneus throughout much of the healthy living blogs, but I fully believe being healthy is in fact having a beer or two, or if I want a piece of cheesecake, I'm going to have a damn piece of cheesecake. But, just not every day. And, unlike when I was fat, I'll keep it to one piece of whatever I'm craving, not go back for seconds or thirds. I hate that people generally correlate being “healthy” with eating like a rabbit.For me, being healthy in the real world is about living my life and making the most of each day. If that means that I eat something junky or unhealthy when I’m out with my friends, so be it.